Tuesday, October 12, 2010

To See or Be Seen


On a rare "date night" my wife and I headed toward the city to increase our restaurant options. We had a babysitter for the kids, a gift card for the meal, a couple of hours for each other, and about 100,000 motorcyclists with whom we shared the road. It was the annual "Bikes, Blues & BBQ" rally; the interstate was literally clogged to a stand-still. It is apparently one of the largest bike rallies in the country.

We saw Harleys and Hondas, trikes and choppers, ape-hangers and air-brushed flames, campers pulling trailers loaded with bikes and bikes pulling trailers loaded with camping gear. We even saw a couple of 14-year old boys pulling onto Highway 412 squeezing every ounce of power out of their 49cc engines achieving, maybe, 40 mph. Whether it was the various expressions of chrome and leather, red, white and blue wind-resistant accessories, Kevlar bodysuits and suede fringe, rebel and POW-MIA flags or the music exhibitions, the food presentations, the bike demonstrations, and the Miss BB&B beauty competition -- this rally was apparently the place to see and be seen on the first day of October.

It is no surprise that we promptly turned north while the line of traffic crawled southward. We had our hearts set on ... not on seeing and being seen by 100,000+ bikers and bike-admirers, but set on ... knowing and being known by each other after at least a month since our last time together without the children.

Seeing and being seen might entertain us for one weekend a year (but not for us; not this year!), but as humans we were designed by God to know and be known. We are relational beings. Knowing each other and God and being known by others and by God is exactly where the good and eternal life begins.

"And this is eternal life, that they may know You, the only true God, and Jesus Christ whom You have sent" (John 17:3).